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Students and Faculty Present at CAPS Conference

CAPS Conference 2018

The Christian Association for Psychological Studies (CAPS) encourages in-depth consideration of therapeutic, research, theoretical, and theological issues. The association is a forum for creative new ideas.  CAPS members serve as psychologists, counselors, educators, marriage and family therapists, social workers, psychiatrists, professional and lay counselors, researchers, pastoral counselors, and students.

Each year at the CAPS Annual Conference, hundreds of professionals gather to share ideas, present research, and learn from each other.  This year’s conference was held in Norfolk, Virginia April 12th – 14th.

Richmont was proud to be well represented by faculty members and students at this year’s conference.  The following is a list of Richmont presenters along with their research topics:

Kelsie Bowman McGlothin (student)

Promoting Healthy Spiritual Development in Children Through Parent-Child Interaction Therapy

Sonja Sutherland, Ph.D. (faculty)

Cultural Competence Development in Christian Counselors-In-Training

Daimi Shirck (student) *3rd Place Winner, Student Category

Clergy’s Perceptions of Their Training and Competence in Regards to Pastoral Counseling Compared to Professional Counselors

Amy Kenney (student) and Amanda Blackburn, Psy.D. (faculty)

Perception, Value, & Practice of Wellness in CACREP-Accredited Counseling Programs

Amanda Hindson (student) and Mary Plisco, Ph.D. (faculty)

Mental Health Treatment for Refugees: Exploring Ways to Address Barriers and Enhance Therapeutic Care

Dan Sartor, Ph.D. (faculty) and Jama White, Psy.D. (faculty)

Beyond Bracketing: Exploring Alternative Paradigms in Values Conflicts

Amanda Blackburn, Psy.D. (faculty), Jama White, Psy.D. (faculty), and Mary Plisco, Ph.D. (faculty)

Promoting Wellness in Graduate Students: Evidence-Based Interactive Activities to Engage Students

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New Scholarship Program: Gateway Scholar Initiative

A new initiative launches this month for prospective Richmont Graduate University students.  Dr. Timothy Quinnan (Richmont President) along with his leadership team developed the Gateway Scholar Initiative to create opportunities for more students to be able to attend Richmont.  The Gateway Scholar Initiative includes two new scholarship programs that will award a total of 15 new scholarship for new students.

Presidential Honors Scholarship

This new scholarship is for students who excelled academically in their undergraduate degree.  To qualify applicants must have achieved to cumulative undergraduate GPA of 3.85 or above.  Applicants must be accepted into Richmont’s Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling program and be starting classes fall of 2018.  Recipients of this scholarship will receive $3000 toward their first year at Richmont.  The deadline to apply for this scholarship is May 1st, 2018.

Gateway Scholarship

The Gateway Scholarship will be awarded to students who demonstrate financial need.  To qualify students must submit proof of financial need along with their scholarship application.  Applicants must be accepted into Richmont’s Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling program and be starting classes fall of 2018.  Recipients of this scholarship will receive $1500 toward their first year at Richmont.  The deadline to apply for this scholarship is May 1st, 2018.

The Gateway Initiative includes an easy application process for these new scholarships.  You can apply online here:

To qualify for these scholarships you must have completed the application process and have been accepted into the Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling program.  For more information on the admissions process visit:

Should You Become A Counselor?

Think back. What was it that drew you to pursue becoming a counselor? Every counselor’s experience of being called to the profession looks different. For some, it’s a love for hearing people’s stories, it’s a conversation with a friend or professor, it’s a sense of how helpful talking to another person can be. For others, it’s connected to your own experience in counseling or working through a difficult season. Some start down the path fresh out of undergraduate school, others may be seeking a new chapter that has greater meaning and purpose, one that can bring hope and healing to people’s lives. A strong sense of calling happens in all the experiences in between.

Maybe you have a strong sense of what inspired your vision to become a counselor, or maybe it’s something that’s been there all along, a knack for seeing and grasping underlying narratives. Or maybe you’re not even sure what counseling is, you just know you want to help people.

Tom Sanders, Director of Admissions at Richmont Graduate University, provides a nuanced understanding of counseling that goes beyond a vague sense of counseling as problem solving. He says, “People are hurting, and their hurt is more than having a lack of things. It’s an internal deficit that people experience, and sometimes counseling is pouring back into that deficit or helping them realize that their deficit is not crushing.” When there are no clear answers, counseling is reminding people of God’s purpose in the pains of life.

Counseling is a unique profession that privileges you to enter into the sacred spaces of people’s intimate lives and deep places of pain. These spaces are not worksites for repair, but spaces for sitting, perceiving, and understanding both the intertwined vibrancy and trauma of people’s’ lives that they themselves may not realize. Counseling draws others into awareness, working towards healthy communities through relationship building. At its most basic level, counseling is sitting with people through hard times.

In the same way that counseling is unique, counselors themselves offer their own unique narratives as connecting points to people who have experienced similar stories. Not every counselor will have a warm and empathetic, extroverted personality, though these are good qualities. Counselors, in reality, are a diverse group of people with diverse experiences who counsel diverse clients. Good counselors tend to be people who have experienced healing of their own. In Sanders’ words, “It’s encouraging to see the redemptive story—there is a redemption in understanding your own brokenness and using that to understand others who are in a similar places.” Counselors realize that they have stories too, and that their vulnerability could help others realize they’re not alone in losing a child or going through a divorce or suffering from addiction.

A counselor’s career is fundamentally relational. It requires the ability to listen with empathy paired in tension with the ability to help articulate their own story. Counseling is giving. It is giving time, attention, and service to people in vulnerable moments of their life. It is its own reward as you watch God use you as an agent of healing and transformation in people’s lives.

The first step in the journey to becoming a counselor is getting trained. At Richmont, we provide Christ-centered education to help people become agents of transformation and healing. Take the next step in the journey to becoming a counselor today. Attend a preview day or visit our admissions page.

A Student’s Perspective: Courtney McWhorter

Meet Courtney McWhorter, a second-year student in Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Richmont Graduate University. Courtney hails from Covenant College, where she studied Biblical Studies with a concentration in missions.

Courtney proudly identifies her younger self as “that youth group kid” who “signed up for all the mission trips … literally.” From Kenya and Sweden to London and Honduras, time overseas instilled a sense of adventure in her.

After graduating college, Courtney wanted to help kids grow to love exploring the unknown and missions. She began as Youth Director at Rock Creek Fellowship, where she wrangles middle and high school students. Six years later, Courtney is still leading kids into adventure and deeper relationship with Christ.

When she is not at a middle school football game or seeing a high school rendition of Beauty and the Beast for the eighth time, Courtney can be found hitting the books for her classes at Richmont. We caught up with Courtney to ask her a few questions about ministry and counseling.

Courtney, first things first: Have you ever lost a student at Six Flags or any other amusement park?

I would tell you the story, but it’s still a little sensitive with the family whose kid I lost. Just kidding. I have not lost any kids at Six Flags, but that’s not to say there haven’t been any close calls.

I really love roller coasters, so I’m all about getting the youth group there when the park opens and staying till it closes. If you aren’t a little queasy at the end of the day, you didn’t do it right.

What is your favorite part of being a youth director?

I love being involved in student’s lives. Teenagers are really awesome, and my life is better and richer for having known them and being part of their lives. My role is to serve them and their families, but really, they are a blessing to me in so many ways. I love being an older sister to them in the faith.

One of my favorite parts of my job is the high school girls small group I lead on Wednesday mornings. Small groups have been an influential part of growing in my relationship with Jesus, and I love being able to facilitate those conversations and studying the Word together.

How do you want to use your Clinical Mental Health Counseling degree? Is there any tie in with youth ministry?

Counseling seemed like a logical next step because of my role in youth ministry. I wanted tools that would be helpful to serve where I am now and wherever I end up in the future. I love students and teenagers, so I hope to be a resource to any church I’m involved in—whether in ministry or adolescent counseling.

What has been your most impactful class so far?

I have enjoyed a lot of the classes I have taken, but I think the most impactful would probably be Group Counseling with Dr. Jeff Eckert. It was a challenging class, but rewarding in so many ways.

I believe that we are healed in community, and a lot of aspects of my job that I love involves facilitating conversations in community. Sometimes when we’re struggling or in a unique situation, it’s just so healing to hear that we’re not alone. I think groups are like potlucks: everybody brings something to share and we all benefit from what everyone else brings.

Why did you choose Richmont?

I chose Richmont for a lot of reasons: I love Chattanooga; I wanted to stay working at Rock Creek Fellowship, and I wanted a place where I could learn how to integrate my faith into the healing process of counseling.

I love that Richmont brings a holistic view of people and counseling, acknowledging that because Jesus entered into our suffering I can enter into the suffering of others. For me, there was no better option than Richmont where I could integrate my faith and the world of psychology, because one without the other wouldn’t make sense.

A degree from Richmont equips you to heal and transform the lives of others. Interactive lessons with professors, clinical internships, and a 100 percent passing rate on the national licensure tests are second to none. Find out why Courtney and many others choose Richmont to equip them to make the world a better place. Apply today.

10 Days of Advent Devotions

At Richmont, we equip students to advance God’s work of healing, restoring and transforming the lives of individuals, churches and communities. To this end, we welcome the season of Advent as we eagerly look back at the birth of Christ. 

Advent comes from the Latin word adventus, which means “coming.” It is a season of preparation and expectation for the birth of God into the world.

To help in this preparation, we have compiled devotions from professors, staff members, students and alumni. For ten days leading up to Christmas, this devotional walks you through the ways the Messiah sustains and gives life. 

Jesus the meekest of Kings! 

Dec. 23

Day 10

By Dr. Timothy Quinnan, President of Richmont Graduate University

“But you, O Bethlehem Ephrathah, who are too little to be among the clans of Judah, from you shall come forth for me one who is to be ruler in Israel, whose coming forth is from of old, from ancient days … And he shall stand and shepherd his flock in the strength of the LORD, in the majesty of the name of the LORD his God. And they shall dwell secure, for now he shall be great to the ends of the earth” (Micah 5:2,4 ESV) 

While there may be more stirring passages in Scripture, this is the one that speaks the most deeply to me each Christmas season. By ancient accounts, Bethlehem seems to have been an obscure place, inconsequential in comparison to the larger and more prominent cities in Judea. Yet Our Savior chose to enter the world here rather than a princely palace in some grand capital city.  

To fulfill the prophecy from Micah, Jesus decided to be born in the small town of Bethlehem, in a stable, and laid in a manger from which barn animals had fed. The God of All Creation, Lord of the heavenly hosts, and King of kings, personified humility in where and how he came to earth. These humblest of origins also foreshadowed the life he would lead- to call not the ruling classes but the common man and woman to be his followers.  

In the Gospel of John, Jesus refers to himself as the Good Shepherd.  The shepherd knows his sheep by name and willingly lays down his life for his sheep.  In the strength of the Lord (as referenced in Micah), Jesus modeled great leadership through shepherding his followers. 

In Christ there is a perfect contradiction:  an all-powerful God who voluntarily abases Himself for our redemption. Christ comes to us in an otherwise forgettable town, when his parents cannot even find room at an inn, is born in a stable, and eventually takes on the meek but spiritually meaningful role of a shepherd.  This paradox is the true beauty of the Christmas story.  For God so loved the world that he sent his Son, and he sent him in a way that reveals his heart and his character.   

It may be difficult for us understand as power and humility rarely coexist in our society or leaders today. But we might reflect on 2 Corinthians 12:9, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”  If ever you feel forgotten, tiny or insignificant, remember that God often uses humility to reveal His greater purpose.   

This Christmas, let us feel the joy of Jesus the Meekest of Kings who knows us by name, who laid Himself down for our salvation, and whose greatness reaches to the ends of the earth and beyond. 

Jesus is Unchanging 

Dec. 22

Day 9

Dr. Jama White, Assistant Dean of Clinical Affairs 

“For I, the Lord, do not change.” (Malachi 3:6, NAS)

I received my most meaningful Christmas present a few years ago from my brother, who is a librarian and a bit of a historian. A couple of months before Christmas he asked me for my favorite Scripture verses, so I was curious as to his gift for me. On Christmas morning that year, I opened a small, carefully wrapped folder holding a single page from a Bible that contained one of my selected verses. The page had been printed in 1651. 

As I sat and pondered the fragile page that Christmas morning and many times since, I am moved by thoughts of all the others who have held that very same piece of vellum over the last 400 years. I will never know their stories, perhaps a colonial settler, perhaps a sister who lost a brother in the Civil War, perhaps a father struggling to feed his family during the Great Depression, perhaps an immigrant looking for an opportunity in a new land. Wherever or whoever these persons were, the God they saw on that page and the rest of the pages of His Word was the same for every one of them. And He is the same for all of us.     

In all our circumstances, geographic locations, and emotional states, God has remained the same for every one of us through all centuries. 

He has never wavered in His Person or Promise to any of us. Even when we are faithless, He remains faithful. No matter the century, following His way is healing to our souls. Even though circumstances in our world are ever-shifting and our responses flower and fade, He still stands. He still hears. He still forgives. He still comforts. He still provides. He still searches us out. He still redeems. Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today, yes and forever (Hebrews 13:8). Thanks be to God!! 

Jesus Gives Us a Fresh Start 

Dec. 21

Day 8

Dr. Sonja Sutherland, Assistant Dean of the School of Counseling

And the one who was seated on the throne said, “See, I am making all things new.” Also he said, “Write this, for these words are trustworthy and true.” (Revelation 21:5, NRSV) 

 The church, during Advent, looks back upon Christ’s coming in celebration while at the same time looking forward in eager anticipation to the coming of Christ’s kingdom when he returns for his people. In this way, as believers, we remain in the tremendous hope of seeing “all things new” when we are with Christ, and we are like him. We will be made perfect. This is our glorious future.  

But what of our understanding of His “making all things new” today, when it seems that life’s mountaintops are sometimes fleeting, and life’s valleys dark and endless? For many, even in the Christmas season, hope is a nebulous thing that we see dimly, as though it is slipping through our fingers. There is a struggle to truly remain in hope during life’s ongoing struggles, remembering that his promise to make “all things new” is “trustworthy and true,” not just for tomorrow, but for today. 

To remain in hope is a choice we make, to refuse to let our circumstances control our thoughts, moods, behaviors, and relationships. Hopefulness empowers us. It encourages us to continue to work through to find new understanding, and when there is not understanding, new faith. It propels us through to victorious living, even in the midst of our circumstances. Despite what you see around you, in your life or in the lives of others, remain in hopeLive there. You will see, that in this Christmas season, in the coming year, he is, “making all things new.” 

Jesus Heals Us 

Dec. 20

Day 7

By Steve Bradshaw, Dean of the School of Counseling 

By his wounds you are healed (1 Peter 2:24, NLT).

Jehovah Rapha means, “the Lord that heals.”

Someone once said, “Pain in life is inevitable; misery is optional.” We all are touched by the fallenness of this world. Trying to make it Eden again will make you miserable, give you an anxiety disorder, or both. Unfortunately, we often turn our pain into misery by responding to circumstances in our flesh instead of trusting His grace. 

Yet Jesus is our healer. In fact, over 73 verses in the Bible refer to some form of healing. Jesus, first of all, is the healer of our physical pain. In Proverbs 3:7-8, we are instructed to turn from evil and fear the Lord, to find healing for our bodies and strength in our bones. Moreover, Jesus heals our very souls, offering spiritual wholeness and forgiveness of sin. 

Interestingly, in the Gospels, Jesus never assumed what type of healing another person wanted; He always asked, “What do you want me to do for you?” The answer to that question revealed the state of the person’s heart before the Lord. Even most of the physical healing He performed was followed by the phrase, “Your faith has healed you,” pointing to the importance of belief in the healing process. 

May you allow the healer of your soul to collide with your life and circumstances for Him to perform His healing work in your life this Advent season.

Jesus Holds Us Together 

 Dec. 19

Day 6

By Dr. Vanessa Snyder, Richmont Institute of Trauma & Recovery Vice President

He is before all things, and by Him all things hold together. (Colossians 1:17, HCSB)

The Christmas season brings a flurry of activity and intensity that can be overwhelming. As many join in the holiday spirit with joy and excitement, others are reminded of pain and loss that becomes vivid in the sparkle of Christmas lights. For these, the celebration of the Savior’s birth bows to loneliness and suffering. 

Although His human entrance into the world was a manger in the small town of Bethlehem, Jesus, the great I AM, the firstborn over all creation, created all things. In this magnificent creation, He used himself as the single source of cohesion to unite and bind our complex physical, mental, and spiritual being. In the most literal sense, without him, we come undone. John speaks to Christ’s sustaining force: “… apart from Him not one thing was created that has been created” (John 1:3, HCSB).  

In the ultimate example of both humility and power, meekness and majesty, the mighty force that binds our cells together stepped into a four-dimensional world to tend to His sheep. Jesus knew us as He knitted us together. He could share in our suffering because He is in every part of it as He is the power that holds us together. But He chose also to enter into it, our humanness, and allow himself to experience it as we do. He became a man of sorrow, one who fully understood pain and loss. And now, He is the one who holds us together in ours, as He is able to fully empathize, as well as give hope. The King was before all things. The King was born. The King died. The King rose. The King now reigns and promises us forever with Him as He continues to hold us together. 

Jesus Cries with Us 

Dec. 18

Day 5

By Dr. Amanda M. Blackburn, Dean of Students

“Where have you put him?” he asked them. They told him, “Lord, come and see.” Then, Jesus wept. (John 11:34, 35, NLT) 

Who likes waiting? During times of waiting, I am often reminded of the ways I wish things were different and my helplessness to shorten my wait. 

I imagine Mary and Martha felt that as they waited for Jesus to arrive following the death of their brother Lazarus. Their brother had been ill, and they had hoped their friend Jesus would save his life. Instead, Jesus arrives four entire days after Lazarus’s death. As Jesus finally arrives, one sister questioned Jesus as to his delay, and Scripture tells us that Jesus was deeply moved. Immediately after they invited Jesus to come see the body, we read that Jesus wept. With both his anger and tears, Jesus fully and mercifully embodies his humanity through his capacity and willingness to be fully engaged with his emotions.  

Jesus mourns with us. While he mourns, he also promised that we will be comforted in our own mourning (Matthew 5:4). The God who cries with his friends is also the one who brings new life. 

Advent is a season of waiting, longing, and anticipating that things will be made right. The inherent tension in waiting is this: We can grieve that this world is not as it should be, while remaining fully aware of the power and divinity of God. While this process is fraught with difficulty, it is my favorite aspect of Christmas. It reminds me of my part in the larger story, when a little baby comes to save the world. This advent season, I invite you to come to Jesus with your tears, knowing the God of all comfort is making all things new. 

 You who weep, come to this God, for he weeps. 

You who suffer, come to him, for he cures. 

You who tremble, come to him, for he smiles. 

You who pass [in death], come to him, for he remains.  

(Victor Hugo, 1847) 

  Jesus Offers More Abundant Life 

Dec. 17

Day 4

By Dr. Mike Stewart, Adjunct Professor School of Ministry 

The thief comes only to steal, kill, and destroy; I have come that they may have life and have it to the full. (John 10:10, NIV) 

When my youngest son was two years old, he decided he was quite old enough to fill his own glass with milk. Taking the large gallon jug from the refrigerator, he managed to carry it over to the kitchen table, open the cap, and, after struggling a bit with the weight of the bottle, pour the milk into the glass. Of course, getting started was the easiest part: now the weight had shifted, and the milk filled the glass, the kitchen table, and even splashed onto the floor. He had just about emptied the entire gallon of milk, to which he proclaimed, with a sense of accomplishment, “I did it!” Yes, he had filled his glass and much more.  

Jesus speaks the words in John 10:10 as a counterpoint to the destructive power of the enemy of our souls. He reminds us that the chief aim of that destructive force is to kill, steal, or destroy life. The motive may be disguised, and sometimes even inviting, but the end is clear. There are many thieves who wish to rob us of the life we have been given in Christ. 

Jesus offers abundant life. He gives life to the fullest. Literally, Jesus says I have come to give you life with a surplus. In a world of complex and changing values, believers have this wonderful assurance that our life is not subject to the winds of times. Jesus gives us a full and abundant life of safety, subsistence, and significance. This assurance allows us to live in freedom and joy, knowing that Jesus is our life. 

I can just imagine, Jesus pouring His life over us, much like my son. He pours and pours life into us every day until it is overflowing. Maybe He also steps back with a sense of accomplishment and says, “I did it!” 

Jesus Delights in Us 

Dec. 16

Day 3

By Elesa Bentsen, School of Ministry Graduate

“The Lord, your God, is in your midst, a warrior who gives victory; he will rejoice over you with gladness, he will renew you in his love; he will exult over you with loud singing.” (Zephaniah 3:17, NRSV) 

As we prepare for Christmas and sing our favorite songs, reminding us of the joy of the season and encouraging us to rejoice, why do we so often feel weighed down by the demands of the holidays on top of the normal pressures of life? It is way too easy to focus on what remains to be done and to be distracted, trying to find the elusive perfect gift. Our life begins to feel like a hamster-wheel race with no end in sight and no winner. We wonder when we will finally get off and rest.   

All the while that we are wearily racing around, God is in our midst, inviting us to join the celebration of his love for us and to remember we are not alone. He offers us the gift of presence, Emmanuel, God with us, Jesus. How often we stumble on our unworthiness to receive this gift of divine presence and fail to hear and experience the joyful sounds of Jesus delighting over us like a new bridegroom with gladness and singing. What would it be like to quit trying so hard to earn God’s approval and begin to relax into his loving arms? If we believe he gives us victory, could we relax in his strong arms instead of working so hard to save ourselves and make our lives work? What would it be like to enter his presence where there is fullness of joy and to discover that he is rejoicing over us… that he actually delights in us and enjoys us? 

Jesus Comforts Us

Dec. 15

Day 2

By Dr. Mary Plisco, School of Counseling Assistant Professor

“Comfort, comfort my people,” says your God. “Speak tenderly to Jerusalem. Tell her that her sad days are gone, and her sins are pardoned.” (Isaiah 40:1, 2, NLT) 

I remember it so vividly during a period of significant sorrow. I was feeling overwhelmed with sadness and helplessness. I walked into church, and just the smell of it started to help me feel better. The peace and quiet of the building, the stained glass windows, and the wooden pews all invited me to sit and be still. But what was most comforting was the crucifix behind the altar – I could feel Jesus’s opening arms embrace me and provide solace. I could sense His reassurance that everything would be okay, that He knew my worries and my concerns, and that they would not go unheard. What a gift to know that God is a comforting God, the perfect listener who understands all that we feel and experience. 

 During this Advent season, we pray in thanksgiving for God’s presence and embrace, and we are reminded of our calling to provide comfort to all. 

Jesus is God 

Dec. 14

Day 1 

By Dr. Keny Felix, School of Counseling Adjunct Professor

“I and the Father are one.” (John 10:30, NIV) 

To think that the God of the universe would step into history and take the form of a servant was unimaginable to many individuals Jesus encountered. Fast-forward 2000 years and questions about Jesus’ identity remain. Could he be the Messiah? Could he be the Christ?  

The thought of Jesus being God was considered blasphemy as he walked the dusty, busy streets of Jerusalem. Yet his response when questioned was simply, “I and the Father are one.” It was a statement that almost prematurely cost him his life. In that very moment, his opponents picked up rocks to stone him, foreshadowing what was to come. How dare he? How could he make such a claim? 

But how could he not? He was God, stepping into history. “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was GodThe Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us…” (John 1:1,14, NIV). Yes, the very God who created the moon, the mountains, and humanity moved into the neighborhood. 

But why didn’t they recognize him? Perhaps Jesus’ brief biography from the Apostle Paul can help us understand. Speaking of Jesus, he wrote: “Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death – even death on a cross!” (Phil. 2:6-8, NIV). Wow! So the Father through the Son in the form of a servant entered our world, dwelled among us, and eventually gave up his life on our behalf? Who else could we be waiting for? What greater demonstration of love could there be?  

Thank you, Father.


 What If Jesus Never Came? 

Dec. 13

A Preface by Dr. Larry Crabb,  School of Counseling Adjunct Professor

Advent, the coming of Christ to this world, into the clutter that we created, is cause for both celebration and challenge. It is an opportunity to throw a party and a call to walk a narrow road.  

Jesus once told would-be disciples to “count the cost” before committing themselves to follow Him. Apparently, he wanted resolute followers, not fickle fans. The thought occurs to me: Did Jesus count the cost required to reveal His Father’s love for self-centered rebels, before He became an unborn child in Mary’s womb knowing He was on His way to a miserable death? 

Romanian pastor Josef Ton has written a provocative study of both the cost Jesus paid to win our eternal happiness and the cost his disciples must pay to make the Father’s love visible to blind prodigals. In his introduction, Ton writes, “… God always conquers by a love that is self-giving and self-sacrificing.” His book, Suffering, Martyrdom, and Rewards in Heaven, is a deeply personal and exhaustive study of the cost-reward dynamic in the Christian life. 

Had Jesus not been willing to count the cost of rejection, persecution and crucifixion, the trinity would have forever continued to live in perfect community without us. Our eternal existence would then have been defined by unbearable loneliness in a world without relationships. The famed Russian novelist Fyodor Dostoyevsky once wrote that hell is the suffering of being unable to love. Imagine living forever without being loved and never able to love.   

Of course, Christ’s not coming to earth would have been unthinkable to our loving Lord; it was never an option. Divine love, the passion that is committed to another’s well-being at any cost to oneself, would do nothing less than provide us with a purposeful life of deeply rooted joy in this world and, in the next world, the happiness of perfect love received and given. 

But hear Ton again: He speaks of “God’s method of sending His Lamb into the world, followed by many thousands of other lambs, to overcome the world by proclaiming the love of God and by dying for the sake of their proclamation.” 

We must never think of our Lord’s advent as nothing more than something inexpressibly wonderful for us. It is that, but it is so much more. Christ’s cost-counting advent is an invitation to us, a call to make known the nature of divine love by relating to others with a commitment to their wellbeing at any cost to ourselves. 

Can we do it? Of course. We are participants in the divine nature of suffering, self-sacrificing love (see 2 Peter 1: 4). May advent season draw us to become little Christs, little lambs who count the cost of following Jesus. The cost is great. The gain is greater–and lasts forever. Jesus counted the cost and paid it. 

It’s my prayer, and the prayer of everyone who has written Richmont’s Advent meditations, that our thoughts about the stunning truth that Jesus did come will lighten you with hope and center you in the wonder of divine love received and the privilege of divine love given.  

Current Student Q&A: On Homelessness, Nonprofits and Clinical Counseling

Richmont Graduate University is full of exceptional students. We’re quite proud. It is an honor to spotlight the accomplishments of current students and alumni.

Meet Cary Bayless. He is in the second-year of his Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling degree. Cary, a creative writing major from Auburn University, is the development and marketing director at Family Promise of Greater Chattanooga.

Cary’s job is to end homelessness in the Scenic City, and he believes his studies at Richmont will help him accomplish this, one person at a time.

Cary has a full course load while working more than 40-hours a week.  He burns his fair share of daylight–and a heaping portion of midnight oil.

Despite the academic and job rigor, Cary’s social calendar is bewildering. He is active on campus and in the community. He fills his time with:

  • Richmont’s student government association
  • North Shore Fellowship’s local missions committee
  • North Shore Fellowship youth group leader
  • ArtsBuild’s Community Cultural Connections Grant panel
  • First Tennessee Bank community development advisory committee

We had a chance to catch up with Cary to find out more about his work and how Richmont is helping him bring healing to the homeless community.

Cary, tell us a little about what you do for work?

I have worked in the nonprofit world serving homeless families with children and veterans for four years now. During this time, I’ve worked various roles from raising funds, marketing, teaching life-skills classes, case management, and even home visits for clients. I love this demographic and believe they are one of the most grossly underserved and misunderstood people groups of our era.

Why did you decide to pursue an M.A. in Clinical Mental Health Counseling?

I chose to pursue my CMHC degree from Richmont with the trauma certificate and green cross certification so that I can serve this demographic in a deeper way through offering therapy and mental health services.

Mental health issues, from my research and personal experience, are quite prevalent and often combined with trauma for many who experience homelessness. My training at Richmont is equipping me with the skills needed to be able to sit with those wounded by homelessness from a holistic, integrative, therapeutic approach.

How do you want to use your degree?

In the future, I hope to be able to offer nature therapy, group therapy, and individual therapy for this demographic, as well as anyone who desires it. To boil it down simply, in the years ahead I look forward to being able to sit with many brave individuals who have experienced homelessness and offer a safe space for healing and growth to flourish.

I recently finished the first two certifications to be a part of the Green Cross trauma field team, so I’m already putting my class work to use.

Any advice for people considering a graduate degree?

I would say, count the cost before you begin. Graduate school is rewarding, but it’s a big commitment. It can be a season of sacrifice and opportunity cost, but if you’re excited about it and feel you can make the world, and yourself, better for it, you can make it work. Be sure the degree is something you’re passionate about.

A degree from Richmont is worth the time and dedication. Interactive lessons with professors, clinical internships, and a 100 percent passing rate on the national licensure tests are second to none. Find out why Cary and many others choose Richmont to equip them to make the world a better place. Apply today.

Richmont Alumna Brings Healing to Human Trafficking Survivors

Emily Aikins makes the world a better place every day. She works with human trafficking survivors at Second Life Chattanooga.

Emily Aikins

Emily, director of survivor services, and her team at Second Life create spaces of trust and security for survivors to process and heal. “These women and men have been through a lot, and healing does not happen overnight,” Emily said.

According to the Tennessee Bureau of Investigation, minors are the most frequent victims of human trafficking in the state. Victims need access to trauma specialists.

There is a vacuum of services for victims of human trafficking, and Emily is on the frontlines. Never in her dreams, though, would she have thought she would be working with society’s most vulnerable.

Emily’s journey to Second Life began years ago as a whisper when she discovered her heart for teenagers.

While at college in Indiana, Emily worked with local high schoolers through Campus Life. She loved befriending these students and meeting them where they were at–brokenness and all. “These kids instantaneously stole my heart,” Emily said.

She found much of her time filled with these kids amidst laughter and tears, sharing their joys and their sorrows. Emily walked with teenagers through the best of times and, in some cases, the worst of times.

“These kids were funny, fearless and asked questions I didn’t have answers to,” Emily began. “I was honored to become the person in their lives with whom they felt safe. I found that I wanted to develop a professional toolset to help guide other students like the ones I got to know.”

She decided to pursue a graduate degree in counseling.

The spring semester before she graduated, Emily went to Preview Day at Richmont Graduate University’s campuses in Atlanta and Chattanooga. She liked the small class-size and the real-world counseling experience from on-site internships.

She chose to relocate to the Chattanooga campus. Emily began classes in the Scenic City where she learned a wide variety of psychological theories and perspectives, including human sexuality, which would later inform her work with human trafficking victims.

After graduating from Richmont with a Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy, Emily worked as a counselor at Georgia HOPE and then the Bradley County Juvenile Court, working with teens.

“While in the juvenile court system, there were lots of hard moments,” Emily said. “The kids I worked with in the juvenile justice system look like problems to the rest of society. The focus was on the punishment for their behaviors. Instead, I was driven to discover the motive behind these behaviors. There was a larger story at play. They have been dealing with trauma their entire lives.”

She saw firsthand the results of lifelong trauma. Luckily, Emily was equipped to care for them well.

“I learned from classes at Richmont how to look survivors in the eyes and let them know they are a person, not a problem to figure out what to do with,” Emily said. “Everyone has a story. These were individuals who have lived really hard lives. And I was able to see and hear the humanity in the situations, and help them rewrite their stories moving forward.”

These experiences caused Emily to look more deeply into trauma-related fields. She remembered the CEO of Second Life Chattanooga speaking at a class while in grad school about the prevalence and devastating trauma of human trafficking.

She pursued work with Second Life Chattanooga, and she was hired.

“As part of a statewide network, Second Life Chattanooga has helped to position Tennessee as the leading state in the country in the fight against human trafficking,” Emily said. “We do our work every day guided by hope, passion, and an unshakeable belief that we can and will see human trafficking defeated. I’m thankful for Richmont’s emphasis on working with survivors of trauma, because this has been the primary work of my career.”

Emily changes lives every day. She makes the world a better place today and for generations to come. It began with the decision to go to Richmont.

Come and find out how you could change the lives of individuals forever. Learn how a degree in counseling will equip you to better love and minister to the hurting and broken. Take your first step. Contact Richmont.






Three Emotionally Healthy Ways to Navigate Relationships

Relationships are tricky. Feelings can be complicated.

Arguments and emotional turmoil can be the result of miscommunication and a lack of self-awareness. A lack of connectedness with oneself and others is often to blame.

Dr. Tyler Rogers is an assistant professor of counseling at Richmont Graduate University. He has a Ph.D. in Counselor Education from the University of Mississippi where he explored, “The relationships between advocacy competency, adult attachment styles, climate and comfort in training, and social empathy.”

In short, he is a relational expert.

But it does not take an expert to know that relationships can be tough. Friendships, romances, and family ties, all can be sources of both exceptional joy and great discomfort.

Many times, outside factors can cause waves in relationships. Other times, it’s our internal responses that cause the turmoil. We cannot control the external factors, but we can choose how we respond. “Volatility is common in relationships, and often it’s because we don’t know how to accurately and honestly express ourselves,” Dr. Rogers said.

Dr. Rogers has three, “very simple, yet very difficult to execute” tips for navigating and fostering emotionally healthy relationships.


Feelings are universal. Regardless of religion, race, and culture, every person on earth has felt happy, sad, shame, anger, joy, fear, and confusion. “The universal language of feelings allows people to connect and empathize with each other,” Dr. Rogers said.

To connect well with others, you first have to know how you feel. We often give an array of reasons why we’re angry without just stating that we are angry. This is more accusatory than honest. Conversations are volatile from the get-go.

The first step to resolving conflict is to dig into the core of the issue. This process begins with self-examination. One cannot explain how the something or someone made them feel until they take time to explore their feelings and then define them.

“For healthy relationships, you first need to learn your feelings,” Dr. Rogers said. “Define how you are feeling in a given moment. Be aware of what you are feeling first before you explain the inducing factors to someone else.”

It sounds easy, but this takes practice. Our feelings can become lost over the static of our busy lives. It’s not until we sit, dig through and examine how we feel are we able to accurately communicate. “Otherwise, it’s like shooting from the hip,” Dr. Rogers said.


“Be able and willing to tell the truth,” Dr. Rogers said. “It’s OK to say, ‘I’m not going to sugar coat this: I am really angry.’ Expressing how you feel is the second way to own it. By doing so, you take responsibility for your feelings.”

People might tell you to “not sweat the small stuff.” So we often try to hide what we feel. God is an emotional being, we are made in his image. We neglect our humanity when we brush our pain under the rug.

“Feelings are not a choice,” Dr. Rogers said. “They are more visceral. What you do with content and knowledge are choices. Who you vote for and how you arrange your Fantasy Football lineup are choices. Feelings are the basic things that happen in all of us. You respect your value when you take ownership of the way you feel. This allows you to be seen by others as who you are without hiding behind morals, religion or extraneous circumstances.”

Have the courage to tell others how you are feeling. Be honest. Be truthful. Don’t minimize your feelings.

Communicating exactly what you feel allows you to connect with one another. It becomes a shared experience. Transparency cultivates intimacy and empathy. Even if someone does not agree, the door is opened for them to know you better. Respect is the desired outcome.


“Do to others, as you would have them do to you,” is called the Golden Rule. We desire to be heard when we share our inner thoughts. This sentiment goes both ways. Others, too, want to feel heard.

“Be available and listen,” Dr. Rogers said. “It takes practice to learn how to listen while not being defensive or minimizing. Someone might be angry at you, but you can still listen while knowing that it is not because you necessarily did anything wrong. Expectations might have been miscommunicated. By listening without becoming defensive or minimizing, you open the door to connect better and find a solution.”

Listening gives you the opportunity to win the heart of people, not necessarily the argument. Which is more important to you?

Feelings are complex. Understanding what we feel can be murky. We create bridges for authentic conversations and emotionally healthy relationships when we define how we feel and communicate honestly.

Dr. Rogers teaches The Personal Spiritual Life of the Counselor and Healthy Family Functioning. Sit in on one of Dr. Rogers’ classes. Contact us or RSVP for Preview Day.

New Achievement for Therapist at Henegar

Congratulations to Dr. Lorrie Slater who has completed and passed all requirements for Marriage & Family Therapy licensure in the state of Tennessee. Already practicing as a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with a doctorate from Regent University in Counselor Education & Supervision, Dr. Slater is a successful therapist at the Henegar Counseling Center and a well-loved professor of counseling. She especially loves to work with children and teens, women in transition, couples, and families. In her academic role, Dr. Slater serves the Chattanooga campus as Assistant Dean of Students and is known to all by her quick smile, compassionate presence, and commitment to clinical excellence. We are so proud of her achievements and excited to see the new ways the Lord will use her at Richmont as an LMFT. Congratulations, Dr. Slater!